Both my parents passed away in the last year and a half or so. At the moment I’m doing some involving work to clear up parts of their estate, which is requiring me to be at the old house every day, and sell or shift bits and pieces of their lives. It gets very old, as an activity, quite quickly.
Just now I came across this poem in the archive collection that I’m cleaning up. It was written in July, 2019 just a couple of days after she died.
Here’s to Magdalena
~
a poem (for my mother)
did you know
that people came
from sydney?
walking past on the footpath
they stopped
to tell me
these were the nicest roses
the prettiest
that they had seen
in all
of the town
my mother’s garden
was
the heart of her
roses perhaps
were the soul
the mystery of
and her success in producing
an orchid spray
was a bursting
of pride
play!
play!
get your bat
and ball
play
the backyard
just in front
of the washing line
was a cricket pitch
perpetually waiting
sometimes
it waited
for years
as generations grew
and transformed
from babies
into cricketers
but
in her memory
a game was played
every day
and she
was a warm place
for children
schnitzel
(deep fried)
is ready
creamy potato and egg
salad
is on the way
extend the table
for the grown ups
put the little ones
over there
take the meat
to the men
to cook on the barbeque
is everyone
here?
who
is missing?
she has always wanted
everyone
to be here
in her garden
at her dinner table
surrounding her
at home
~
Fine memories
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Thanks Derrick.
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That’s beautiful, Frank.
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Thanks Tracy, she loved her flowers and her grandchildren fiercely.
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Are you taking cuttings from the garden, Frank?
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No, Tracy. They don’t do it for me. I have a few small things (and still have the pastry board that I wrote of a few weeks back. Decided to keep it, for awhile, at least.
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They will find a new carer.
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Yes, I’m sure of that, Tracy. Thank you.
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It’s beautiful and touching, Frank 🤗
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Thank you, so much, Donika.
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Lovely memories Frank, beautiful poem. ❤
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Thank you, Marje. A conjunction of archiving and estate disposal made it feel like it was time to post it. If I recall, I wrote this thinking I might have to do a reading in lieu of a eulogy, but I dodged that on the day.
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You’re welcome. And that is understandable Frank. A perfect platform to share. ❤
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Thank you, Marje.
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Love the way you’ve managed to convey quite a lot about your mum in the poem, Frank.
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Yes, the essence of her, when I think back. They were both characters, but dad was a larger than life subject for writing about, whereas mum had a lower profile. A lot of sadness that she carried throughout her life.
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A deeper person, perhaps?
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Possibly so, Mick. Simple background, but complex enough.
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A perfect mom, fitting for many moms. Thanks for sharing.
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Hi Darlene. Thank you. Yes, she was a goodun.
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Lovely, Frank, helping you through the estate chore I hope.
I feel my grandmother in many of these lines.
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Lovely, Ellen. I’m glad.
Estate clearing has to end soon. The house is sold and I have to go back to my usual employment soon (this has been a long-leave sojourn of 3 months).
The detailed work will end and the big dumping of remnants looms.
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Perhaps it is good you have a deadline. From my experience it is easier to not finish some of these tasks especially around those remnants. Although the relief of having it done proved to be immense in the case of my mother-in-law.
I hope your return to the “usual employment” is smooth.
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A lovely tribute to your mother. I have a good sense of her from the memories you shared. Her name was Magdalena? It’s such a pretty name.
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Thank you, Liz. Yes, she was Magdalena, known as Leni, for short. Loved her grandchildren, and was a fierce protector of those who needed it (like me, for instance, on occasion).
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These memories will never leave you, Frank. If you had a good Mum you are indeed blessed, (as my brother and I are). What a fitting and beautiful tribute for a beautiful and hardworking lady
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Thank you, Claire. Yes, she was a goodun.
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